Across North India by Train and Some People I Met

Calcutta bus by Nate Rabe

18 January 1990

What a rush at the airport. A huge group of Raiwindi[1]s was heading to Lahore from Karachi. It was a jumbo.

Wally met me in the drizzle at the airport and took me straight to the border. Heโ€™s pretty bummed out with the developments in the States. Berkeley has fucked him over the BULPIP directorship; hiring someone else and informing him that he was not even in the running for this yearโ€™s directorship.ย  Wally takes these things very hard but I know I would too.

Got across to Amritsar in an Ambassador[2] which stopped every half kilometer or so due to โ€˜blockageโ€™ in the fuel pump. An ansty Aussie shared the front seat with me. He was wiredโ€”shouting at the drunks, pissed off with having to pay Rs. 20 for the taxi and going on and on about missing concerts and plays back in London.  Not the kind of travelling companion I want. We parted at the Railway Station.

I was greeted by 2 friends–rickshaw walasโ€”from my last trip to Amritsar. Made a new oneโ€”a hustler who first told me there was no way Iโ€™d get a berth on the Amritsar-Howrah Mail tonight.  He left and then came back after a brief interval. He suggested if I paid a little โ€˜chai paniโ€™[3] Iโ€™d definitely get one.  So, I paid Rs. 20 for the ticket clerk and Rs. 40 to my new friend for the luxury of a sleeper berth. A good deal. Rs. 220 for a 1879km journey.

I asked my rickshaw friends if he was a โ€˜gentโ€™. Not the English term but a shortening of the word โ€˜agentโ€™, used in these parts to refer to touts and fixers. โ€œYesโ€, they replied, โ€œbut an honest one. Heโ€™ll do what he says he will.โ€ And he did.

I had asked if there were any bombings on the rails[4] these days.

They looked at me disappointingly. โ€œThis is written at the time of our birth. There is no changing it. Bombs or no bombs, when your number is up, itโ€™s up.โ€

One of the rickshaw walas then broke into a parable.

โ€œThere once was a man. A mad camel got to chasing him and to escape the man jumped into a well. The camel sat outside the well and said to himself, โ€˜Heโ€™s got to come out one day and when he does Iโ€™ll bite himโ€™. He settled down to wait.   After a couple of days a poisonous snake slithered by and bit the camel. In an instant the camel was dead.

โ€œThe man in the well finally crawled up to have a look. He saw the camel lying bloated in the sun, rotting away. He triumphantly strode forward and gave the camel a mighty kick. His leg sunk deep into the rotting belly of the camel. The manโ€™s leg got infected and he died.

โ€œSo, you see,โ€ said the rickshaw wala, โ€œeven when we take precautions, Fate tricks us.โ€

With such encouragement I set off for Calcutta.

19 January 1990

A long journey across northern India. Lucknow, Pratapgarh, Benaras, Patna. People flow in and out of the aisles as if choreographed. Itโ€™s stuffy on the top tier but I sleep a lot. Iโ€™m surprised at the spareness of the big stations. Itโ€™s hard to find even a packet of Marie biscuits. The thought crosses my mind that maybe the great lurch into the 21st century that India Today so proudly heralds has been at the expense of the further impoverishment of most Indians.

I share a smoke with a masala magnate from Calcutta. Heโ€™s actually Punjabi but his family moved to Calcutta from Lahore over a century ago. He never goes back to Punjab.

โ€œI like Calcutta because itโ€™s the cheapest and safest place in India. You have no riots, no ghadbad.[5] The loadshedding is tolerable-nothing like in Benaras. The prices of everything is cheapโ€”living, food, transport.โ€

Heโ€™s a real Calcutta booster. At one point to tells me, โ€œYes, the police are corrupt but at least a Bengali will do what heโ€™s bribed to do. You give him some money and your work is done.  Itโ€™s the honesty I like.โ€

He speaks in a soft voice. He begins to tell me about how he used to drink like a โ€˜mad manโ€™.ย  Always drunk. Always looking for a drink.ย  He was, as he puts it, โ€œat the last stageโ€.ย  He then sought the help of a guru, whose name is drowned out by the clacking of the rails as we whoosh by a dark Bihari village. He pulls out an amulet with a hand tinted image of his guru. โ€œWhatever he says, has to happen,โ€ he quietly says. He places the image back under his shirt and against his chest. He begins relating more miraculous acts of his guru to a couple sitting next to him.

I climb up again to the 3rd tier and fall asleep.

20 January 1990

Calcutta is the city of superlatives.  There is no end to the seeming premier-ness of the place. Most dirty city, most crowded. Most posters per pillar, most taxis per person. Most specialised bazaars. I saw one this morning which catered entirely to shoppers interested in balloons and rubber bands. Most cruel means of public transportation (hand-pulled rickshaws).  Most diverse inhabitants, most rundown colonial buildings. Most cultured city: International Film Festivals, Classical music programs, Beatlemania stage show. Most touts. Itโ€™s hard to find anything new to say or any new superlative to add to Calcuttaโ€™s already superlative list of stellar โ€˜mosts and bestsโ€™.

I have found a room in the Paragon Hotel, one of these new tourist hostels which are the same no matter where you go nowadays. The Ringo Guest House just off Connaught Place is no different than the Paragon Hotel just off Chowringhee.

Touristsโ€”Germans, Dutch, Japanese, Australians and a few frightened Americansโ€”writing in small script in their journals, talking to each other about their similar discoveries and eating out at the same restaurants.

I walk up Sudder Street. I remember coming here, to the Red Shield Guest House[6],with my family every other year enroute to a deserted beach in southern Orissa/Odishaโ€”Gopalpur-on-Sea.

Iโ€™m afraid to go Gopalpur these days. Afraid to find sparsely dressed Germans scowling at me as they strut around like they discovered the place.

In those days (late 60s) we seemed to be the only white faces in Calcutta.  Sudder Street was quiet; New Market cool and refreshing; the Globe Theatre ran movies like The Bible. Now it shows Young Doctors in Love and New Market is crawling with sad Muslim touts begging you to buy or sell something. Hotels proliferate. Tourists swarm.

These tourists are backpackers. Young folks from the 1st world bumming around the 3rd.  In Benaras they learn sitar, in Dharmsala they take a course in Buddhist meditation. In Jaisalmer they ride camels into the desert and here in Calcutta they volunteer for a week or so at Mother Teresaโ€™s. They then catch a train to Puri or Gaya.

I admire (in a way) their altruism for washing and feeding the dying. I wish I could do the same. But something rubs me the wrong way. There is a feeling of inevitability to their righteousness. Mother Teresa is another stop along the wayโ€”like the journey of the cross in Jerusalemโ€”full of good material to write home about. Mother Teresa is now another tourist franchise, another neat thing to do.

Calcutta is a pleasure to visit again despite the restless 1st Worlders who hang on like frightened knights of the tourist round table. The locals donโ€™t seem to give a damn about your origins here.



Calcutta by Nate Rabe

22 January 1990

Spent a thrilling few hours wandering among colonial tombstones in the Park Street Cemetery (opened 1760). The image that comes to mind is a ghost ship shipwrecked on an isolated reef, forgotten and dark. Like all cemeteries it has an immediate calming effect. Jumbled and disorderly tombstones and mausoleums crumble in silent gloom among trees and hundreds of potted plants. Some of the paths are under repair but other outlying areas are as untouched as they were a hundred years ago.

Iโ€™m instantly aware this place is an entire city. Stately and expansive.ย  Towering citadels with Corinthian columns, baths and porticos keep watch over a host of long-dead nabobs and Company servants far from home.ย  Each tomb is grander than the next. Spires rise 6, 8, 10 feet above the soil in honor of a young civil surgeon downed by โ€˜feverโ€™ or an indigo planter consumed by the pox.ย  The most ordinary of Indiaโ€™s first British colonizers have erected over their bones and spirits structures few Presidents can boast.

The Raj was young when Park Street opened. The Battle of Plassey was only three years won. Young men with no social standing back home, here had a chance to be rajahs off the plentitude of Bengal. These young men had never dreamed of the fortunes to be made in Bengal; Bengal had no way to stop them. Park Street memorialises the sense of destiny and ostentation of the early Raj. The world was waiting to be plucked from the mohur trees. Fortunes were huge and readily won for those who showed their ruthless ambition. For them this was a larger-than-life world. I suppose a bereaved father felt it perfectly natural to raise a small Roman temple in honour of his nine-month old infant son, dead by flux.  The cemetery, like the period, like the characters buried here is an overstatement. The epitaphs are sentimental and overegged. There was never a disliked, cruel or greedy person buried here.

Of course, not everyone buried here is insignificant. William Jones, the great Orientalist icon who was the first to propose the idea of a shared kinship between Sanskrit, Greek and Latin, lies under a 15-foot obelisk. Charles Dickensโ€™ second son has been lovingly moved here by students from Jadavpur University. Richmond Thackeray, father of William Makepeace Thackeray, a senior servant of the Company, lies here, as does the wife of William Hickey, Indiaโ€™s first prominent English journalist.

Teachers of Hindoostanee at Fort William College, traders and fair maidens, Park Street Cemetery is, more than any other place in India, a memorial to the Raj.ย  Here one can taste the self-aggrandisement, the self-importance and most of all, the self-pity which characterises British India. You only need to close your eyes to hear them speak again. Little do they realise that their ostentatious moments of death are long forgotten and ignored.

23 January 1990

Residential mural in Bhubaneshwar by Nate Rabe

Today I arrived in a cemetery of a different sort. The great ancient temple city of Bhubaneshwar. Anย  initial quickie around the city has left me awed with the grandeur of Indiaโ€”truly the Wonder That Was. Iโ€™m none too impressed however by the greedy mahantas and pundits who follow me with visitor books filled with the names of foreigners who have come before me and donated Rs. 100 or 150. They are like blood suckers who will not detach themselves from you until you fork over some cash.ย  Muttered curses follow me when I hand over a fist of Rs. 2 notes or a tenner. โ€œYou should give at least Rs. 50,โ€ one calls out as I walk away.

24 January 1990

Had a sleepless night. The bed in the Janpath Hotel was infested with bedbugs and the room abuzz with mosquitos. I was so tired and on the verge of the final descent into sleep only to be woken by a damn katmal gnawing at some remote part of my body. The room was distinctly shitty. A weak but persistent stench wafted across the room. No windows, only some cement grating at the top of the wall which allowed easy access for the mosquitos.

I flung my few large pieces of cloth on the floor and turned on the fan. I caught a cold and my neck ached but I must have fallen asleep between 2 and 3.

I blearily wandered off toward the Lingaraja complex which was still as impressive as it was yesterday evening.ย  The priest left me alone to take some photos. I met two young pandas[7] who were only interested in chatting, not in extracting money from me.ย  One was Kuna and the other Bichchi. Kuna kept classifying women into a personal scale of โ€˜sexualโ€™.ย  โ€œWestern lady very sexualโ€, or โ€œJapanese lady most sexualโ€.ย  He was full of obscure English aphorisms.ย  โ€œEvery book has a cover every woman a loverโ€, was his favorite but others addressed less sexual subjects as well.

Bichchi was interested in telling me about politics. One of the Patnaik[8]s was in power. Another Patnaik was trying to squeeze him out now that he (the second Patnaik) had the leverage of the National Front government in Delhi.  Bichchi was confident that his Patnaik (the second one) would be victorious in the end. The main complaint against the ruling Patnaik was thatโ€”as best as I could understand from Bichchiโ€™s broken Hindiโ€”he liked to consort with little boys.  If not that he drank or smoked something that wasnโ€™t good.

Kuna immediately spoke up. โ€œIs there only one tiger in the jungle? They all do these things. Have you ever seen only one tiger in the jungle?โ€

They tried to encourage me to drink some bhang[9]. Being already light-headed from a sleepless night I declined.ย  They extolled the virtues of bhang but cursed heroin, charas [10]and alcohol.ย  All these vices Bichchi attributed to the Pakistanis.ย  He saw a nefarious attempt to destroy his country. Apparently, there are in Bhubaneshwar a growing number of drug addicts.

Kuna again offered his own interpretation. โ€œIt is good. We have 90 crore[11] people here in India. If a few kill themselves with heroin good. It will keep our population down.โ€

I took my leave after an hour under the shade of the Lingaraja, one of 125,000 temples said to be scattered around the city.  This statistic came from Bichchi.  I was tired and wanted to nap but didnโ€™t want to do it in the Janpath Hotel.  Over a beer at the Kenilworth Hotel, I resolved to head immediately to Puri in search of cleaner mattresses and an airy room.

25 January 1990

ย Puri strikes me as an overgrown seaside fishing village. Except for the fact that it is one of Hinduismโ€™s four major dhams[12], there didnโ€™t seem much to commend the place.ย  The beach is here too, of course, but it has none of the isolated charm of Gopalpur or the lushness of Kovalum. The alleys are dark and damp and only Hindus are permitted to enter the ancient Jagganath[13] temple. For a photographer it is also frustrating. The temple is set at an awkward angle which makes it almost impossible to capture well. The square in front of the temple is in glaring light most the day so people huddle in the shadows under the tarped awnings.ย  After walking around searching for some good light, I put my cameras away. From now on Iโ€™ll stick to the alleys where little icons and shrines add color to the landscape.

I talk with Mohammad Yusuf who is selling reptile scales for the cure of piles and general unwanted blood flow. He makes rings of these and advises his customers to wear them on their left hand so as when they perform their toilet, the ringsโ€™ magical effects will โ€œmake you 100% clean. You can spend Rs. 10,000 on a doctor but these rings will cure you completely.โ€

He is an Oriya[14] but like most Muslims in the north speaks quite good Urdu.  When I told him I was living in Pakistan he quietly asked, โ€œWhatโ€™s the news? Is it good?โ€  I find the Muslims Iโ€™ve run into โ€“a lotโ€”to be sad people, though Iโ€™m probably projecting.  In Calcutta all the booksellers and tape hawkers on Free School Street are Muslims from Howrah. One told me with a bit of over enthusiasm that โ€œHindus are the best. I have more Hindu friends than Muslims. We have no problems here!โ€

Another, Salim, is a waiter at the Janpath Hotel in Bhubaneshwar.ย  He was soft spoken and left me with a feeling tender. He claimed to make Rs 200 a month in the hotel of which $150 he remits to his family.ย  He used to work in Calcutta in a factory that makes cooking utensils but for some reason came, as he put it, โ€œinto the hotel line.โ€ He doesnโ€™t like the work but is stuck.ย  He saw two postcards I had bought from a sidewalk dealer on Sudder Street. One was of the Kaaba[15] the other was of Imam Hussain on his horse. Salim kissed them and pressed them against his forehead when I offered them to him.

The Muslims seem to be accepted and other than a slight hesitation before telling me their names, they seem content. They confess to cheering for Pakistanโ€™s cricket team but have been quite uninterested in asking me about life in Pakistan. Only one, a cloth merchant in Bhubaneshwar, asked me if I preferred India or Pakistan.

Tomorrow, I take a day trip to Konarak. Itโ€™s Republic Day and will be overrun with tourists undoubtedly.

26 January 1990

I was accompanied to Konarak by a Gujarati, Dr. Parwar. A pleasant and gentle man who had pulled himself up to a position of considerable rank and authority in a government hospital.  His father was a manual labourer in Pune, โ€œso I have seen life from close up.โ€ Through hard work he got his MBBS and MD from one of the best medical schools in India and has since added a triad of MAโ€™s in subjects like Public Health, Venereal Diseases and Administration.   He has been attending a conference in Calcutta on Public Health Administration and has come to Puri to kill some time.

He is deeply committed to serving the people of India as a doctor back in Ahmedabad.  He has no desire for an overseas job or money. He proclaims more than once how proud he is of being Indian.  This is not something I hear in Pakistan very often.

Konarak is impressive. The stone sculpture is beautiful and majestic. The monument is set out as a sun chariot with 24 giant wheels pulled by 7 rearing horses. Most of the original temple has been destroyed but the remaining bits inspire awe for their size and beauty.  The original temple rose more than twice as high at the remaining remnant which rises 80 feet into the air.

Dr. Parwar and I climb to the top of the temple and gaze into a deep opening. A pedestal is at one edge where we overhear a guide explain, โ€œThis is the place where the image of the Surya (the Sun God) stoodโ€.  Inside his stone head and feet, apparently, was magnet which when a certain interaction of physics and metaphysics transpired โ€œcaused the Godโ€™s head and feet to move.โ€

The Indian government is preserving the temple. Dozens of lungi[16] clad workers scratch the eroded stone with water-soaked bamboo brushes. Here and there new plinths and slabs of granite have been fitted into the chariot spokes and walls.  Up near the top they have placed two huge Buddha-like images, upon which, during the Eastern Ganga dynasty[17] which built the temple, the sun was said to have shone continuously. One at dawn, one at noon and one at dusk. The third image is yet to be restored.

Dr Parwar and I silently take in this magnificent piece of human-divine cooperation before boarding a bus back to Puri.


[1] Raiwind, a town near Lahore, famous as the headquarters of a major Islamic missionary organisation, Tablighi Jamaโ€™at

[2] Hindustan Ambassador. Iconic Indian manufactured sedan which for decades was about the only car available in most parts of India.

[3] Literally, ‘tea water’. Colloquially used to indicate a small gift/bribe.ย 

[4] A Sikh movement for Khalistan as a separate country was raging in the 80s and early 90s. Often trains passing through Punjab were bombed as part of the terroristic tactics of militant Sikh groups. By 1990 things had calmed down quite a bit but my question was not entirely unjustified.

[5] Hindi/Urdu word meaning โ€˜chaosโ€™; โ€˜confusionโ€™; โ€˜disorganisationโ€™. Colloquially, โ€˜hassleโ€™.

[6] Part of the Salvation Armyโ€™s global charity empire. Cheaper rates for Christian missionaries right in the heart of Calcutta!

[7] Hindi word for priest or guide to a temple. Not the Chinese animal.

[8] A prominent political dynasty in the state of Orissa/Odisha.

[9] Traditional Indian cannabis drink.

[10] Hashish

[11] Hindi/Urdu for the numerical value of 10,000,000

[12] The four dham are the major Hindu pilgrimage destinations located at each cardinal point of the compass. Dwaraka (West), Puri (East), Badrinath (North) and Rameshwaram (South)

[13] From which we get the English word, juggernaut.

[14] A native of Orissa/Odisha

[15] The stone building at the center of Islam’s most important mosque and holiest site, the Masjid al-Haram in Mecca, Saudi Arabia

[16] sarong

[17] 11-15th century CE

Pulling on Threads

Trying to untangle my family’s German Russian roots

What I know or thought I knew about my fatherโ€™s family line was the following.  Dadโ€™s dadโ€™s arrived in America as a very young boy in the company of his mother and older brother, Uncle Julius, around 1906.  They somehow ended up in the flatlands of North Dakota where grandpa grew up, became an itinerant preacher, a sort of Methodist circuit rider, raised a large family of nine children, with Dad stuck in the middle at number 4, moved to the suburbs of Los Angeles where some of his children had settled, got cancer and in 1955 passed away two years before I wandered onto the stage.

Grandpa was German and had come from that vague geography known as Prussia. โ€˜Around Danzig,โ€™ I would tell people. Thatโ€™s it.  The history of the Rudolph Rabe line was a concise one. It began somewhere in the eastern German lands, beyond which stretched a vast, silent horizon of Nothing.

There are cousins who have done some research and who have known more than this for a long time. But as I have lived in distant lands, far from the continental USA, for most of my adult life I have not been privy to family gatherings where such tales and faded photographs are shared.  To be honest, the thumbnail history Iโ€™ve just retold was sufficient for my purposes. I never met grandpa Rabe and had little curiosity about exact details.

__

It’s inevitable that a day would come when I would want to know more. Iโ€™ve spent a lot of time throughout my life thinking about the sort of family I was raised in.  At various times Iโ€™ve tried to write about being raised in India as a missionary kid. Or being raised as an evangelical preacherโ€™s kid.  Having studied history at university I am always interested in the โ€˜but why did that happen?โ€™ questions. Once I make sense of one part of the story, I like to zoom out a couple layers and see the wider view and understand the context.

When Dad died in 2018, I did a bit of reading on the Holiness movement, the cultural pond he was spawned and swam around in as a child. Camp meetings โ€˜down by the riversideโ€™ featured bigly in this history; both dad and mom talked about the Watson Camp Meeting in southern Minnesota where they met and where Dad was inspired to pursue a career as a missionary in India. 

Dad and Mom jointly wrote a memoir of their life together in which grandpa Rabeโ€™s history was covered off in the first two paragraphs.  Grandpa was born in Poland of German parents wrote my dad, which helps to explain why Danzig always popped into my head, as that cityโ€™s name in Polish is Gdansk, which everyone got to know through the Solidarity movement in the early 80s.

Grandpa had kept a diary for some years in which he talked about his life as a poor Methodist preacher in the Dakotas, Montana and Minnesota. I read it but donโ€™t remember him shedding any light on his childhood, family or history in Europe.  What was interesting about his diary was his obvious total commitment to his Christian faith. That fit in well with my own experience. His son, my dad, who shared his name, Rudolph, was also a barnacled believer in Jesus.  Like father, like son.  Senior and Junior.

Together the memoir and diary added a lot of color to my imaginary family portrait. I got a glimpse of how financially unstable grandpaโ€™s upbringing had been. And how that continued for most of my dadโ€™s childhood.  The diary revealed grandpa to be a man tormented by regular and frequent emotional highs and lows. He was, it seems, a manic depressive.  Many of my immediate family, including myself, have also battled with the Big D and other mental illness avatars.  I was starting to feel more connected to this guy. 

As for his religion, I began to understand just how specific a world it really was.  The Holiness Methodist churches in which he preached were small, rural and probably quite marginal as far as the broader German community went. Most parishioners were farm folk who clung to their German lifestyle and language, mainline Lutheran mainly but also some Catholics. Grandadโ€™s family appears to have come out a Pietist dissident movement whose adherents migrated from Germany to the Black Sea regions of southern Russia in the early 19th century.

Here was a thread that tied together my own strong evangelical upbringing back into a history of a particular religious group who espoused many of the same principles that both Rudolphs held dear.

__

There was this guy named George Rapp who lived in the German-speaking state of Wรผrttemberg. Rapp believed he was a prophet and when he said as much in front of the Lutheran church hierarchy he was jailed and quickly thereafter, gathered some followers, who like him believed that Christโ€™s second coming would take place in the United States, fled Wรผrttemberg for Pennsylvania.  There, he established a community–the Harmony Society–that emphasised separation from the world of non-believers (enemies number 1 and 2 being other Christians), personal holiness, celibacy and communal ownership of community assets. 

Influential in his time as a radical Pietist [1] among similar โ€˜evangelicalโ€™ sects, denominations and communities but also with some important early figures of the Methodist movement in the US in the early 1800s, he once met the President, Thomas Jefferson, who personally interceded with Congress to allocate 40,000 acres of land for Rapp to establish his spiritual colony.

George Rapp

If he lived today, he would be called a cult leader and be the subject of a Netflix documentary. In addition to believing in the second coming, personal sanctification and wealth accumulation (which Rapp somehow believed was essential to winning Jesusโ€™ favour upon his return), the Rappists as they were sometimes called, believed in alchemy, direct communication with God and submitted themselves to complete domination by Father Rapp.  In the words of a journalist at the time, โ€œThe laws and rules of the society were made by George Rapp according to his own arbitrary will and command. The members were never consulted as to what rules should be adopted; they had no voice in making the laws.โ€[2]

What does this have to do with the European phase of my family history? Maybe nothing, as Iโ€™ve not read much on Rapp and the whole Pietist movement that came out of the Lutheran church in Wรผrttemberg. But the link between this radical evangelical, holiness-focused cult with the growth of Methodism, especially among German speaking immigrants in the States, is interesting. To what extent (if any) was the Holiness Methodist denomination, in which grandpa preached and in which my Dad and his siblings, as well as Momโ€™s family were raised, influenced by Rapp and his teaching? 

Even more interesting is that the surname Rapp is closely connected with the surname Rabe. They both trace their origins to the Middle High German[3] word โ€˜ravenโ€™, hence a nickname for someone with black hair or some other supposed resemblance to the bird.[4] Though Rapp has become its own family name, it was originally an abbreviated form of Rabe (Raabe).

The third thin but interesting thread of this tapestry is that our step Great-Grandfather, husband of Grandpa Rabeโ€™s mother at the time of their arrival in the States, Frederick Kenzle (Kingsley) a.k.a. โ€œGrandpa Fritzโ€, according to family conversation, was born in a village called Hoffnungstal, in the Bessarabian region abutting the Black Sea.

Hoffnungstal Colony, Bessarbia

So what?

Hereโ€™s what.

George Rapp was not the only religious radical dissident to take leave of Wรผrttemberg in the early 19th century. The Holy Roman Empire State of Wรผrttemberg, in the southwestern corner of modern Germany, was one of the first States to embrace Lutherโ€™s Reformation. The kingdom became a power center of the Evangelical Lutheran Church but also threw up several important โ€˜Pietistโ€™ movements in the 18th century that positioned themselves against the formality and rituals of what was in essence the State religion.

Pietists were Lutheran dissidents who reacted against Big Church. They emphasised personal piety and purity, social separation, small worship circles often in houses and often a communal approach to property and wealth.[5]  They also expected the second coming of Christ to happen โ€˜soonโ€™ but had different opinions on where in fact Jesus and his white horse would land.  Rapp thought the new country of the United States was the site.  Others believed it would be Jerusalem.  This group, led by another evangelical leader, J. Lutz,  looked eastwards, towards the vast plains of Russia, as a place to move to, since it was quite a bit closer to the Holy Land. Come the Day, they would be able to get to Jerusalem quicker than if they stayed in Germany or moved to Pennsylvania, like the Rappists.

__

Germans, with their reputation as good farmers, were invited by Catherine the Great to move to Russia where she promised them attractive special privileges[6] especially freedom of religion. First settled in the Volga River region, the response was so positive that in 1803 the newly acquired territories of the Crimea and southern Ukraine surrounding the Black Sea were opened up to German and German-speaking settlers.  These allotments too quickly filled up with Mennonites, Lutherans and Pietists migrants, a lot from Wรผrttemberg, setting up German colonies and villages where they were free to do things in their German way, including speaking German and practicing their own version of Christianity.  Germans had over the centuries settled elsewhere in Eastern Europe, including Prussia, Czechoslovakia and Poland.

Soon after Rapp moved to America, another group of Pietist Wรผrttembergers headed towards Odessa where a large number of Germans were settled.  They settled and moved around the Odessa area for a couple of decades but didnโ€™t always have friendly relations with other settler colonies. In fact, a feature of many German settlements was their physical and social isolation from other villages, especially Russian, Ukrainian, Polish and even other Germans. Economically they were self-sufficient, selling their produce in regional markets and giving birth to smaller โ€˜coloniesโ€™ close to the โ€˜mother colonyโ€™. 

In 1819, the Pietists established a colony they named Hoffnungstal (Valley of Hope) near Odessa (Ukraine) ย but in 1842 moved their colony to what was then Bessarabia and over the next century was to be found on maps as part of Romania, Ukraine and Russia, depending on the political configurations of the time.ย  Germans who had settled in Poland earlier also flowed into this final bit of land set aside for German immigrants. Today the site of Hoffnungstal is in the Ukrainian town of Nadezhdivka, about 20 km south of the Moldovan border.

The unstable political situation naturally made it difficult for lots of Black Sea Germans to identify precisely the country of their birth.  Grandpa Rabeโ€™s birthplace in the 1930 Federal Census lists his birthplace as Russia. And that of his father and mother as Germany.  Dad wrote in Our Life Together, that his dad had been born in Poland. We know that Grandpa Fritz was born in Hoffnungstal (in Bessarabia, Romania, Ukraine or Russia, take your pick) and that Grandpa Rabeโ€™s mother, Karolina, is listed as being born in Ukraine in 1858. 

For what itโ€™s worth, here is my take on our garbled family heritage.

Karolina Schieve/Schultz/Raabe/Kingsley

Karolina Schieve (mother of Rudolph Rabe Snr.; grandmother of Dad; my great grandmother) was probably born into a German speaking Lutheran evangelical community settled in the areas around the Black Sea, near Odessa, in 1858. Maybe Hoffnungstal, maybe a similar colony.  She married Adolph Schulz whom it seems already had some children, namely Amelia (Mollie), William and Mary all of whom settled in Guelph, North Dakota a tiny, unincorporated village on the plains in the early 20th century. The Schultzโ€™s had lived for some time (if not permanently) in a small town, Lemnitz, not too far from the border with the modern Czech Republic.

Adolph, it seems was a widower and probably quite a bit older than Karolina.  One characteristic of the German speaking settlements across Eastern Europe was they moved around a lot. If things werenโ€™t working out in Poland then they would try somewhere else, perhaps around the Black Sea or the Caucasus region.  They were double and triple migrants. Maybe Adolph, after the death of his first wife, found himself near Odessa/Bessarabia and married Karolina (or she was compelled to marry him for economic or social reasons; often the case).   In any case, Adolph and Karolina had no children together. Perhaps the old (er) man passed away but in February 1885, Karolina married Karl Wilhelm Raabe. She was 27 years old. Raabe was perhaps a couple years older but far closer in age to her than Adolph. 

With this liaison, and the entrance into the drama of my Great-Grandfather, Karl Wilhelm Raabe, our familyโ€™s deep religious roots once again break the surface. Karl Raabe was born in Leipsig. Not the large, historically famous city and home of Johann Sebastian Bach, Richard Wagner and Richard Schumann. No. But the small German enclave of Leipsig, far away on the eastern steppes of the Ural Mountains and spitting distance from the border with the modern country, Kazakhstan.  The bulk of German-speaking immigrants to Imperial Russia had settled in the Volga River basin and around the Black Sea with smaller communities in the northern Caucasus region.  But Leipsig, where Great Grandpa Karl was born, was truly โ€˜in the middle of nowhereโ€™.  Podunk, Russia. 

Given that social and physical isolation was valued among Pietist/evangelical/non-conformist Christian sects, all the more so they could remain pious as they awaited the second coming of Christ, itโ€™s not stretching it too far to suggest that the Germans in this far outback of Russia, were particularly devout & committed to removing themselves from the world and creating a holy society on earth. Given the small size of the town (never more than a few hundred souls) it seems fair to conclude that the Raabeโ€™s adhered to this strain of spiritual living. Interestingly, the commune of Leipsig was established in 1842, the same year that Hoffnungstal Colony, 3000 kilometers to the south, and from where Karolina and her children emigrated to North Dakota, found its ultimate home in Bessarabia.

Transportation and communication in late 19th century Russia were neither easy nor frequent. But historians have shown that there was considerable movement of Germans across the Russian lands as they sought better opportunities. As many of the communities shared a theology, worldview and lifestyle and came from similar regions back in โ€˜Germanyโ€™[7], it is not at all inconceivable that the Raabe clan way out in the boonies were in touch with the Schieves and or Schultzโ€™s down in Hoffnungstal. Especially when they were searching for suitable mates for their children.

In any case, Karl Wilhelm and Karolina were joined in holy matrimony in February 1885 and enjoyed 15 years of married life together.  Edward was born 18 months later in 1886, followed by Wanda (1887), Olga (1890), Julius (1891) with Rudolph, my grandfather, bringing up the rear in 1894. By the time Karolina was 36, she had been married twice and given birth to five children. All on the cold Russian steppes!

__

In 1897, Karl and Karolina and their five young Rabe[8] children were among nearly 2 million Germans living in Russia.  They had been drawn by promises of land, non-interference in matters of religion, language and education, exemption from military service and despite the tough environment (blizzards, floods, droughts, armed conflict, hostility from locals) had thrived. Few were outright wealthy but Germans in Russia did enjoy a privileged status. In 1926, 95% of German Russians spoke German at home and few spoke the local languages. We can assume the same about Karl and Karolina.

In the 1870s however, Tsar Alexander II introduced a โ€˜modernizationโ€™ agenda which broadly cancelled all the privileges the Germans had enjoyed for nearly a century. In effect, Germans were now Russian citizens and subject to all the laws and obligations of every other Russian, including military service (6 years upon reaching the age of 20). For Mennonites and other pacifist groups, this presented a crisis. Even if they had no ideological, theological or moral position against military service, few Germans relished sending their sons to war in far away parts of the Empire.

In 1891-92 a major famine (largely man made, as most famines are) ravaged the Volga River basin, and even extended south into Bessarabia, southern Ukraine and even parts of Chelyabinsk region where the Raabe clan had settled in Leipsig.  

In 1862, over in the United States, Congress passed the Homestead Act which granted 160 acres of surveyed public land to any adult male who had not borne arms against the American government if they agreed to stay on it for a full five years. Ten years later, in 1872, our dear northern neighbours, the Canadians, enacted the Dominion Lands Act with a similar hope of attracting immigrants to settle their vast prairie lands. And, to ensure America did not encroach on the land and claim it as part of American Territory. Oh, how history repeats itself!

And thus, began another massive wave of German immigration. This time across the oceans to the New World.

In 1874, Germans across Russia began immediately looking for opportunities to move elsewhere. Emissaries were sent from colonies in Bessarabia to investigate migrating to nearby Dobrudscha, in what is now Bulgaria and Romania, and, at the time, a part of the Ottoman Empire. They found it a suitable place to move and left Russia to settle in both existing and newly founded villages. Others migrated to recently opened areas in Central Asia and Siberia, where, although still a part of Russia, there was plenty of land and the laws werenโ€™t strictly enforced yet.[9] 

Karl and Karolina must have discussed all these developments as they watched their children grow.  In 1900 Karl passed away aged just forty-five leaving Karolina with five young children to manage and take care of.  Resilient as she had proven herself to be already, Iโ€™m sure the death of Karl increased dramatically her sense of vulnerability and anxiety, especially as Edward her eldest son approached his later teen years.  Pretty soon after Karlโ€™s passing Karolina married again, this time to Frederick Kenzle (later Kingsley) who Dad and his siblings referred to Grandpa Fritz. Born in 1860 in Hoffnungstal Colony, it seems possible he and Karolina knew each other at the time they joined forces. Both had children from previous marriages and in 1902 they dispatched Edward Raabe and all three of Fredโ€™s children, Mollie, Mary and William, to North America. To Guelph, North Dakota to be exact.  Edward was only 16 but โ€œbeing happy with what they found America to be, made arrangements for the rest of the family to join themโ€,[10] which they did the following year, 1903.

Karolina was remembered in her obituary as a โ€˜good Christian womanโ€™ but I suspect life had caught up with her. 3 marriages. 5 children. Who knows how many significant relocations in โ€˜Russiaโ€™ before arriving in a country where she did not know the language. According to Dadโ€™s memoir, โ€œFritz Kingsley was a kind man, but unfortunately an alcoholic who at times made life miserable for his family.โ€

Karolina (mother) and Olga (daughter) headstones, Ellendale, North Dakota

Karolina, the matriarch of the Rudolph Rabe family, passed away in 1908, just fifty years old.


[1] Radical Pietism has been defined by Chauncy David Ensign as ”That branch of the pietisitic movement in Germany, which emphasized separatistic, sectarian and mystical elementsโ€. Quoted in Scott Kisker, Radical Pietism and Early German Methodism:  John Seybert and The Evangelical Association, Methodist History, 37:3 (April 1999): 175-188

[2] James Towney, โ€œDivine Economy:  George Rapp, The Harmony Society and Jacksonian Democracyโ€ (Masters Thesis, Liberty University, 2014), pg. 6.

[3] 1000-1350 C.E.

[4] Ancestry.com RAPP and Ancestry.com RABE

[5] John Wesley, the founder of Methodism, was strongly influenced by the Pietists and adopted the principles of the centrality of the Bible, personal spiritual transformation and spiritual disciplines such as Bible study and devotions.

[6] 1) free transportation to Russia; 2) freedom to settle anywhere in the country; 3) freedom to practice any trade or profession; 4) generous allotments of land to those who chose agriculture; 5) free transportation to the site of settlement; 6) interest-free loans for ten years to establish themselves; 7) freedom from custom duties for property brought in; 9) freedom from taxes for from five to thirty years, depending on the site of the settlement; 9) freedom from custom or excise duties for ten years for those who set up new industries; 10) local self-government for those who established themselves in colonies; 11) full freedom to practice their religion; 12) freedom from military service; 13) all privileges to be applicable to their descendants; 14) freedom to leave if they found Russia unsuitable.

[7] Modern Germany was not established until 1871. Prior to this it was a crazy quilt of independent regional kingdoms, and duchys such as and including, Wรผrttemberg.

[8] Raabe, Robey, Robie or Robbie, as per your preference.

[9] Sandy Schilling Payne, โ€œ16 June 1871โ€”Tsar Alexander II Revokes German Colonists’ Privilegesโ€, Germans from Russia Settlement Locations (Blog) 16 June 2021

[10] No author credited, โ€œGuelph North Dakota: Granary of the Plains 1883-1983โ€, Guelph Centennial Committee, 1983, pg. 279

Little Krishnas

Young boys dressed up as young Krishna on the occasion of Sri Krishna Jayanti, 2009. Near Trisshur, Kerala.

I didnโ€™t really learn about India until I left to attend University in Minnesota. ย I had lived there virtually all my life up to that point and had a slightly above average knowledge of Hindi but it was pretty rough. I understood India as the place where I felt most at home in the world. A place I identified as โ€˜homeโ€™. But I had only the sketchiest understanding of Indian history; the sitar and Hindi movies summed up Indian culture.

My world was largely European/American/white/Christian. Though I grew up speaking an Indian language as early as or even before English, though I had many Indian playmates and in school, close mates, and though my family in no way tried to isolate ourselves from Indians or Indian culture and society, by dint of another culture and tradition I knew precious little about, that of evangelical missionaries in India, Indian culture remained a vague notion with very few points of clarity and authentic appreciation. 

This came home to me in my early semesters in University. I got into mid-level Hindi class only to discover how limited my vocabulary was and how ungrammatical was my speech. I really didnโ€™t know how to write a coherent paragraph.  The name Mohammad Rafi had never registered with  me. Whilst reading a passage from a newspaper aloud in class (my pronunciation/accent was always very good) I stumbled at the reference to โ€˜Rafiโ€™. As there are no capital letters in written Hindi I didnโ€™t realise it was a name; the sentence didnโ€™t make any sense.  Ultimately, the professor, who himself had never been to India, had to tell me that Rafi was a proper name and referred to Indiaโ€™s most famous male singer, Mohammad Rafi.  

I think my choice of South Asian Studies as my undergrad major and then my Masters in Modern South Asian history, were attempts to make up for this huge ignorance about the place I said I loved and that I called home. 

After formal education my years in Pakistan enlightened me about the impacts of Modern Indian history and how tangled and fascinating is the relationship between Pakistan and India.  

In 2010 I began blogging about music. All kinds. But I understood that I could create a bit of niche and a following by focusing on South Asian music, another subject about which I was almost completely ignorant. And so, my learning and education about India (in the broadest sense of that term) continued.  My current research on the history of the Pakistani movie industry a.k.a. Lollywood, is the same. It seems I have an unsatiable desire to learn ever more about the subcontinent.

There was no subject more unknown to and less understood by me then the world of Hindu philosophy and religion. Naturally, missionary children were not encouraged to learn too much about it for obvious reasons. To fight this โ€˜dark forceโ€™ was what had brought my parents to India in the first place. But also, I had enough of spiritual instruction and religious activity in my daily life already. Daily prayers and Bible readings, devotions, camps, Bible clubs, spiritual conventions and tent meetings, church services and baptisms.  The idea of trying to figure out a second religion was the last thing on my mind.  Creedence and the Beatles, Dev Anand and Zeenat Aman were far more exciting fields to plough. 

I still know so little about it, though I do love reading the many stories behind the many aspects of God that Hindus and Indians have concocted and pay homage to. 

I was in Kerala on business.  One evening I hired a taxi to visit a friend who lived near Trisshur. I wasnโ€™t going to take my cameras but after the quiet voice reminded me, โ€œTake your camera with you everywhere you go,โ€ I headed out. 

About half way there we turned a corner to find the road blocked by these young fellas. 

A couple villages were celebrating Krishna Janamasthami the annual festival of Krishnaโ€™s birth. Families celebrate by swinging their youngest son around in circles and then painting young boys in blue, placing cardboard crowns on their heads and wandering around the village singing, laughing and pretending to play the flute, Lord Krishnaโ€™s instrument of love.  Later, entire busloads of villagers will visit the Guruvayur Shri Krishna Temple in Thrisshur for more ritualistic and formal acts of worship. Like many places, the temple claims to trace its history back 5000 years (doubtful) and is one of southern Indiaโ€™s largest places of Krishna worship, something usually associated with north India. 

Krishna in his infancy and boyhood is known as Balakrishna, (literally, child Krishna). A stage on his life remembered for his mischievousness and antics. He is depicted in books, magazines, murals, calendars and stickers with chubby cheeks, rolls of fat on his little belly and often with his hands full of butter which he has stolen from his mother.

The following bhajan tells that story.

Balakrishna postcard

 

Running Home (Pt.3)

My bodyguards followed their orders and allowed no one to talk to me. Including themselves.ย  From Hardwar to Lucknow, a journey of 15 hours, they kept their prisoners on a tight leash, taking turns at dozing, sometimes whispering, occasionally sharing bidis.ย  Up on the top tier, I was left alone.ย  Neither uttered a word to me.

When the train pulled into Lucknow, our party clanged and shuffled its way across a platform or two until one of the cops pointed at a train. โ€œThat one will take you to Pratapgarh,โ€ he said.  

With their duty done, they turned their detainees around once more and left me to my own devices. 

An empty train in India is a rare thing. The one I boarded was oven hot and completely quiet.  I had the feeling of entering a long steel church. There was a similar air of hope and faith that the train would soon start moving.  A handful of passengers lay stretched out here and there, prostrate before the Sun god.  I found a window seat on the shady side of the compartment and waited.  

Eventually, the train did pull away from the station and onto the dry, scrabbly plain of central UP.  I squinted into the wavy horizon.  Though it must have been close to 45 degrees, I relished the way the heat burned the monsoon chill out of my bones.  

The slow swaying and jolting of the carriages comforted me. I lost myself in the clacking of the rails.  I was excited now.  Just a couple more hours to go and Iโ€™d be home.   

I must have nodded off for I was woken by someone tapping my shoulder. In front of me stood a Sikh ticket inspector in a navy blue blazer with worn cuffs. He had his hand outstretched and asked me to show him my ticket.  

โ€œI donโ€™t have one.โ€ 

Perhaps because a representative of the Indian government itself had deposited me, Special Delivery, on this train my fear was gone.   

โ€˜Why?โ€ 

โ€œMy money was stolen and the Railway Police told me to take this train. My mother is sick in Allahabad and Iโ€™m going there.โ€  The further I travelled the longer my opening line became. 

The Ticket Inspector eyed me quietly for a minute.  As he did, my courage wilted. The same panic I had felt after the Russians had laughed me out of the compound, rushed through me. I was sure the moment of my arrest had arrived. 

โ€œYou do one thing,โ€ he said after a while. โ€œJust before we enter Pratapgarh Station, the train will stop.  You alight there and walk to the city. There will be no issue of ticket-shicket.โ€ 

I nodded my assent somewhat incredulously. How was it that a man charged with enforcing the rules was advising me on the best way to break them?  

Several minutes later the train did roll to a stop about 200 metres from the station. I, along with what seemed like every other passenger on the train, hopped onto the hot earth and scampered out of the railway premises through a hole in a symbolic fence standing bent and rusty 5 metres from the highway. 

Iโ€™ll never forget that sardarji

** 

Pratapgarh is a small district town famous for not much. Its main role is as a rail junction and transport hub.  I entered a chowk bustling with activity. People were streaming up and down the road toward the station. Buses and Tempos, Indiaโ€™s awkward three wheeler taxis that ferried people to remote villages off the main highway, stood three deep on both sides of the road. 

Touts shouted out destinations of nearby towns and villages. Hawkers shouted the prices of their fruit and peanuts.  Horns blasted incessantly. Loudspeakers attached to trees blasted Lata Mangeshkar and Rafi songs. 

โ€œIllaahabad, Illaahabad. Illahabaaad! Hey kid, why not go with us?โ€ 

A man with sweat dripping from his nose and ears and with a soiled handkerchief around his neck motioned me in his direction. 

He was standing by a taxi. I couldnโ€™t afford a taxi. I was looking for a bus. I couldnโ€™t afford a bus either but somehow catching a free ride on the latter seemed more feasible than in a taxi. 

โ€˜Where you going?โ€ 

โ€œAllahabad.โ€ 

โ€œCome on. I have one seat left, Rs. 12 is all. Come on, quickly, right over here.โ€ 

He pulled me towards the Ambassador.  

โ€œI donโ€™t have 12 rupees.โ€ 
 

โ€œNo problem, how much do you have?โ€ 

โ€œNone. But if you stop on Stanley Rd, across from Beli Hospital I can get you some.โ€ 

โ€œDone,โ€ he said. โ€œSit down, here.โ€ 

He pulled open a creaky door and shoved me into the back seat. I joined five other adults. Across their laps they carried a charpai, a country rope-bed that had been partially disassembled to fit into the auto.  None of them could move from the weight of the wooden legs and the tangle of rope.  I squeezed in as best I could, holding the door shut with my arm. 

In the front seat sat another four adults. Not one of them was the driver. With his taxi now full the driver began to insinuate himself little by little behind the wheel. After some wiggling and numerous requests for reconfigurations in the passengerโ€™s sitting arrangements, he was able to reach both feet to the pedals. His back was mostly resting against the front door which caused him to maneuver the wheel with distinct awkwardness. As if he was puppet with broken arms. 

Somehow, by stretching and nudging the gear shift with the very tips of his fingers, the driver got us rolling down the highway.  Inconceivably, in every little bazaar we passed through he shouted out loudly, โ€œIllahabad. Kacheri chowk savari. Jaldi aa!โ€ as if he were the only one in the car.  Luckily, no one took up his offer and an hour and a half later just as the hottest sun of the day was turning into cool evening, we stopped in front of Allahabad Bible Seminary.  

Before I managed to tell the driver to wait while I got Rs 12 from my parents, the car lurched and sputtered down the Grand Trunk Road. 

48 hours after leaving Mussoorie I walked into the shady compound of home.  

** 

My parents were expecting me.  Mr. Kapadia had called to inform them that while the school didnโ€™t know my exact whereabouts, โ€œI suspect heโ€™s on his way to you.โ€ 

I spent a week at home.  When my folks grilled me about what had caused me to take such a drastic step I didnโ€™t know what to say. For the entire journey I had operated on the principle of forward motion.  I didnโ€™t doubt my feeling that I needed to be home and had spent no time analyzing why I had bolted. 

I had no words to express the oppression I felt inside. The monsoon, the mist, the mountains, the Bible Club, the school, the cold had all worked to make me feel agitated and disconnected. Out of sorts.  

My sister Beckie had graduated that summer and gone to the States for college. I was the last of my siblings, so perhaps I felt alone and vulnerable.  Without an older brother or sister as a reference point boarding school seemed more scary and hostile.   All I knew for sure was that I had an overwhelming but inarticulate need for home.   

After a week my dad put me back on the train. โ€œWe told Mr Kapadia that he has our agreement to punish you in whatever manner the school decides.โ€ 

It was matter-of-fact statement.  I didnโ€™t care. My inner battery was recharged. 

When I got back to Mussoorie I felt strong and connected.  And heroic. People that I had admired or been intimidated by looked at me in awe. โ€œRabe, you actually ran away! Far out!โ€ 

I donโ€™t know if anyone followed my example but for a brief moment I considered myself a trailblazer. 

Mr Kapadia informed me that I would be gated for 10 days. No extra curricular activity and straight home after school.  I was to serve my sentence in the home of the Harpers, whose son Phil, was a classmate.  Mrs Harper, a vivacious, larger-than-life, extremely liberal minded woman welcomed me with love, a no-nonsense attitude and French Toast for breakfast.   

โ€œIf you ever want to run away again,โ€ Mr Kapadia told me when it was all said and done, โ€œjust come to me. Weโ€™ll have a talk. If you want a cigarette Iโ€™ll let you smoke in my house.  Just donโ€™t frighten everyone by disappearing!โ€ 

Running Home (Pt. 2)

The Russians were easy to find.  I heard their tipsy, vodka-soaked laughter coming from a shady part of the compound. Four or five of them were sitting on adjacent porches of their apartments, their fleshy faces flushed red with heat and drink. 

As I approached, silence fell.  

I smiled, hoping it would break the ice. It didnโ€™t.  

They stared at me, obviously perplexed and irritated that I had interrupted their lunch break. One of the women whispered something to her friend. 

โ€œExcuse me,โ€ I began. 

By now I had my tale-of-woe down pat. I told them my mother was ill and I needed some money. โ€œI need to get to Allahabad, about 700 kilometers from here,โ€ 

โ€œNo. No money,โ€ one of them said.   

A couple others joined in the chorus. โ€œNo money. Go away.โ€  A man with huge arms and angry eyes said it louder than the others. With real authority.   

Having spent 8 years in boarding school I knew a lost cause when I met one. I turned back toward the gate.   

But I was dying of thirst. With a drinking gesture I said, โ€œCould I have some water?โ€ 

This second request really set them off.  Amidst the general clamor of, โ€œNo water. Go!โ€™, one of the men made a move towards me.  He didnโ€™t follow me but I didnโ€™t have a the courage to turn back and check until I was several meters down the path I had come up just a couple minutes earlier.  When I did turn they were still tense. They glared at me but as I retreated the laughing resumed.   

A mali was sitting in the shade on his haunches watering a guava tree. He beckoned me over.ย ย 

He held up the hose for me to drink.ย  He didnโ€™t say much and I didnโ€™t offer anything.ย  I have no doubt he had been watching the scene play out from a distance. I sensed it was one he himself was familiar with. I took his kindness as an act of solidarity.ย 

The thought of a 10 km ride back to Hardwar in the midday sun depressed me, especially as I was no richer for my effort.  I was too spent to formulate my next move, but I knew I needed to be in town where there existed at least the potential of assistance.   

I must have looked miserable pedaling along the highway because out of nowhere a man appeared. He had well oiled, wavy hair that glistened in the sun. He wore narrow legged pants and a plaid yellow shirt.  I canโ€™t remember how it happened but he successfully commandeered my bike, sat me on the rear carrier and began cycling toward Hardwar. 

Despite the heat, we got a bit of breeze going which cooled my cheeks slightly.  I vaguely remember the Stranger talking to me but canโ€™t recollect about what.  Before I knew it we were back at the Station. He dropped me at the cyclewala and even paid the outstanding balance. Then with a nod of his head he disappeared as unexpectedly as heโ€™d appeared. 

** 

I retreated to the relative comfort of the 1st class Waiting Room. I dozed on a rattan lounge chair with extendable arms that doubled as leg rests, one of the distinctive artifacts of railway waiting halls in those days.  But I was hungry. And more than a little anxious about how I was going to make the next leg of the journey. 

A middle class family were the only others in the Waiting Room. The patriarch reclined on a rattan chair like mine, staring blankly at a ceiling fan that swayed as it whirred. From time to time he lifted his buttocks and farted.ย  But other than that, he didnโ€™t move.ย 

He may have been oblivious to me but I had been watching him for some time. After one of his farts I cleared my throat and in my best Hindi launched into conversation. I learned they had come to Hardwar on yatra (pilgrimage) and were now heading back home. I asked him about his business (the nature of which Iโ€™ve forgotten) and may have said a nice thing or two about his young child.ย ย 

As a conversationalist he was unenthusiastic.  

โ€œMy mother is ill,โ€ I offered, hoping to pique his interest. 

He may have nodded, but if he did, it was ever so slightly. 

โ€œI need to get home. To Allahabad. But I have no money.โ€ 

โ€œWhy do you not have money?โ€ 

โ€œI was robbed,โ€ I found my mouth saying.ย  I couldnโ€™t believe it. But I was in the water now, so I had to keep paddling.ย ย 

โ€œThis morning on the way from Dehra Dun, it was very crowded in the bogie and when I got here I realized someone had stolen my money.โ€ 

He looked at me skeptically.  

โ€œCould you provide me with Rs. 20, so I could get a ticket? My mother is very ill.โ€ 

โ€œYou must report to the Railway Police, if you have been a victim of theft.โ€ย 

As far as he was concerned the conversation was over. The spinning fan captured his attention once more.  I felt foolish but let a decent interval pass before shuffling out of the Waiting Room. 

** 

Once again, 24 hours after the first occasion, I entered the office of an Indian Railways bureaucrat.  I had mulled over what the farting businessman had said. He was absolutely correct in his observation that the Police needed to be notified in the event of a crime.  But in this case there had been no crime committed so fronting up to the Police would not be the smartest tactic.  On the other hand, I was clean out of options. 

The Railway Police office was shabbier than the Station Masterโ€™s in Dehra Dun. The man behind the desk had a pot belly and sweat stains all over his khaki uniform.  His closely shaved head sported a choti, the little tuft of hair that identified him as a high caste Hindu.  Unlike the Station Master his face lit up when I stood in front of his desk. 

โ€œKya baat hai, baba?โ€ he asked. What is it, lad? 

Though he addressed me in Hindi he clearly didnโ€™t expect me to respond in kind. 

โ€œMeri ma bimaar hai, aur mere paas ticket ka kiraya nahi hai,โ€ I said, laying down the by now firm foundation of my story. 

โ€œArey! Hindi bolte!โ€ His belly jiggled with delight.  โ€œAy shabaash!โ€ 

Before I could continue with my dishonest story he shot a series of questions at me in an attempt to come to grips with the fact that a white kid could speak Hindi. 

I told him about me. I was American. I studied in Mussoorie. I was born in India. Rajesh Khanna was a good actor, yes.  

Whereas the Station Master in Dehra Dun had instantly linked Woodstock School and my being in his office to funny business, this jolly man didnโ€™t give a stuff.ย  Indeed, he was hooting to a couple of underlings about what a spectacular thing I was.ย 

Somehow in the midst of this excitement I managed to explain my dilemma: 700 kms. No money. Sickly mother. 

Before I knew it he grabbed my wrist and dragged me out of his office. A couple of minutes later we were seated at an open air dhaba that sold tea and fast food to the throngs around the station.ย ย ย 

He instructed the dhabawala to give me a plate of curry and a few chapatis. โ€œThis fellow is American but born in India! Itโ€™s true. And he speaks spasht Hindi! Just listen.โ€  He could hardly contain himself. 

Though my mouth was full (this was my first food in nearly 36 hours) I knew this was price I had to pay for my dinner. A small crowd had appeared; rather the endless crowd of passersby stopped for a moment to look at me. It was my cue.ย ย ย 

I restated in Hindi what I had told the Policeman a few minutes earlier, that I was American, born in India, lived in Allahabad but studied in Mussoorie. 

People marveled and exclaimed. The Policeman couldnโ€™t have beamed wider had I been his son. He ordered my plate to be filled. I ate up. He continued to hold court but eventually passersby grew bored and the rhythm of the bazaar returned to normal.   

The Police Inspector led me back to his office.  I was grateful for the meal but had no idea how I was going to make it home. 

He pressed a buzzer on his desk which immediately produced an underling.  The underling was sent forth to find others and after several minutes returned with two colleagues who carried rifles and bulleted shoulder straps.  They noisily pushed a pair of prisoners into the office in front of them.  With their legs and wrists in irons the prisoners shuffled and clanged like cheap robots.  

The inspector didnโ€™t move from his desk and in a loud voice told the newly arrived cops that they were to include me in their party.ย  They were on official duty, transporting criminals from Hardwar to the state capital, Lucknow.ย  โ€œYou take this boy with you to Lucknow but do not let anyone, and I mean anyone, speak with him.โ€ย 

With that, the chubby Police Inspector himself walked me to a train and bade me bon voyage.  I was on my way at last. Still with no ticket but a pair of personal armed guards.  

Running Home (pt 1)

When I was 15 I ran away.

Like most teenagers, I had a fantasy about running away from home.  I was going to escape and ride my push bike 2500 km to the tip of India. I was going to live a life free of adult authority along the Grand Trunk road. I was going to go far away.

But when the moment came to make a dash, I ran straight home.

**

The Himalayan monsoon that year seemed to have no end. The rains had come early and weeks went by without a glimpse of blue sky. By mid-July, my heart was aching for some warmth and a flat horizon

Mussoorie, the hill station where I attended boarding school, was  hemmed in with a brittle, misty fog that pricked your skin like needles. Every tree dripped. The narrow dirt trails we navigated around the hillside had turned into rivelets of mud.

One Sunday the claustrophobia was particularly intense. The dampness of the trees, clouds and earth had soaked into every pore of my body. I couldnโ€™t get warm and I couldnโ€™t shake the restlessness that had been building up for days.

I and a few friends had spent the weekend in the basement of a friendโ€™s house at the top of a prominent hill in town. On Sunday afternoon, the crowd I hung with attended Bible Club–two hours of singing, praying and Bible teaching mixed with ping pong, homemade cakes and pretty girls.

That Sunday I sat glumly to one side, resentlng the endless rendition of โ€œPut Your Hand in the Hand of the Manโ€, coming from a keen group of devotees in the main room. Tim Buehlerโ€™s electric guitar had been a novelty the previous year. Today it grated my nerves. I wanted to be away. To be far from this place and be by myself. I pushed my way through my friends to the door which I closed quietly behind me.  

And then I began to run.

My mind was blank but my body took control. I sprinted up the dirt path to the chukkar, a concrete motor road that ran around the top of the hill. Within seconds, almost with every step, a plan developed in my mind.  Ten minutes of jogging got me to Dr Olsenโ€™s place. I charged into the basement and rifled through the pockets of whosever jeans I could find. I fished out three rupees from one pair.  With my sleeping roll under my arm, I half marched, half ran down the chakkar toward town.

My heart beat madly. I was exhilarated by my decision though I was not yet sure what it was. I was heading for the bazaar but I didnโ€™t dare think too much about it.

One of the rules of school was that students were not allowed in Mussoorie town, one of Indiaโ€™s most famous tourist destinations, alone and without the permission of a parent or staff member, except on Saturdays. I knew if I met anyone remotely connected with the hierarchy of the school–staff, staffโ€™s spouse, school karmachari or friend of a staff member–I could be legitimately questioned about my presence in town. If I had no written notice on me I would be forced to return.

I made it down Mullingar Hill, a ski slope of a road that wound through Landour, unnoticed. A few shop keepers eyed me with some surprise as I passed by but none tried to stop me.

My biggest fear was meeting Mr Kapadia, the In-Charge of Hostel, the highschool boys residential hall where I lived. In addition to being a strict disciplinarian, Mr K was known to be a raconteur who often went drinking of an evening with his Rotary buddies. What if he approached, gambolling home slightly tipsy?

While my eyes flitted like a criminalโ€™s ahead, to the side and even back, searching for a familiar face, I realized that this was the first time I had actually been in the bazaar on a non-Saturday. The worn familiarity of the alleys and shops had been replaced by a hostile feeling, as if a friend had turned against me. I breathed deep and kept going.

At Thukralโ€™s Photo Studio I sensed victory. It was now only a 5 minute walk to the bus stand. That was the first destination in my half baked plan. What I would do once there I hadnโ€™t yet figured out.

I approached the ticket cubicle of the UP State Roadways Transport Service and shoved my three rupee notes across the counter. A man gave me 75 paise in change along with a ticket.  He nodded at the appropriate bus. It was empty. Not wanting to take a chance I lay down on the seats and waited for the bus to start. Not many people were travelling that evening and once we started swaying around the hairpin bends I sat up. For the first time in weeks I felt myself relax.

**

The bus deposited me at the Dehra Dun Railway station. I knew now that my soul was taking me home to Allahabad, 860 kilometers to the east, but how I was to make the journey remained a mystery. My buying power, all of 75 paise, was limited to 3 cups of tea.

Without much thought (my body still operated as an independent agent) I marched into the Station Masterโ€™s office on the main platform. The room was long, orderly and brightly lit by neon tubes that hummed like a swarm of bees.

A uniformed official sat behind a desk surrounded by phones and stacks of papers. He looked up as I came in. I opened my mouth. What came out surprised me. โ€œMy mother is sick and I need to return to Allahabad, urgently. I have no money for tonightโ€™s train.โ€ 

He surveyed me for a moment. โ€œYou are a student of Woodstock School?โ€

I nodded.

โ€œDoes Mr Kapadia know you are here?โ€

The mention of the name sent a shiver though my body. I must have mumbled something but canโ€™t recall what. I seemed a stranger to myself.

He reached for a phone and dialled a number. The game was up. I froze.  After a minute he put the phone down and said there was no answer. I backed out of his office. He may or may not have called the Much Feared Kapadia, but he didnโ€™t pursue me.

With Plan A foiled I was fresh out of plans. I paced up and down the platform struggling to keep my panic under check. I knew if I could make it to Hardwar, a couple three hours down the track Iโ€™d feel safer. I knew someone there, or at least had a name and a face, if no address. Hardwar was that much further into the Indian plain. And that much farther away from the horrid imprisoning hills. But a certain distance had to be traversed yet. I bought a cup of tea and squatted down to contemplate the dilemma.

The night came up quickly. Tube lights flickered on. I was getting hungry but needed to hold on to my meagre resources, now just half a rupee. Some trains came and others went. I watched them as years later I would watch planes high in the sky and wish I was on them. The beast within me was restless again. He didnโ€™t like this hanging about. I kept walking the platform, crossing the footbridges and back again.

โ€œWhere you headed,โ€ a coolie asked me as I shuffled by. He was on his haunches, cupping a bidi in his fist. I squatted next to him and mumbled, โ€œHardwar.โ€

โ€œThat one leaves tomorrow morning, eight oโ€™clock,โ€ he said indicating a dark chain of carriages.

I would have shared his bidi if he had asked. I usually smoked Four Square when my friends and I were in our secret tea shops in Mussoorie. I wanted smoke in my lungs at that moment. Heat and fire to match my restless anger. He didnโ€™t offer me the bidi but he did yell at a nearby chai wala to give me a clay matka of tea and a nice, soft, cellophane-wrapped tea bun.

I slurped the tea, gratefully. As I chewed, the coolie and I chatted. He asked  where I was from, who my father was and what sort of service he did. I admired the brass identity badge on his arm with a number that certified his official status as a porter. He treated me as if I was his nephew, not a stranger. After a while, when our conversation slowed he showed me where to lay out my sleeping bag on the platform. โ€œIn the morning, the bogie you want will stop right here.โ€

During our chat he had assured me that I shouldnโ€™t worry about not having a ticket. โ€œDo you think all these people have tickets?โ€ His tone indicated what the answer was. โ€œJust donโ€™t jump into a reserved bogie and no one will even look at you.โ€

The following morning the platform was chaos. As I rolled up my gear my coolie friend appeared amidst the melee. He told me to follow him, then elbowed and abused his way to the carriage. He sat me down by a window. Before he disappeared he smiled at me.

The train started to roll. This was electrifying. Traversing India by train, perhaps because I did it so little and mostly on holidays, was always a thrill. As the carriages lurched and swayed through the ancient Siwalik range I couldnโ€™t have cared less that I had no money, had not eaten a meal in 24 hours and had no address for my friend in the rather large and rather holy pilgrim city of Hardwar, just a couple hours in the future. The sound, the motion and the hot breeze generated by the coal fueled engine had my heart racing. This was very illegal and very fun.

Around mid-morning we pulled into Hardwar. First hurdle was to get past the official who stood at the exit collecting tickets.  One option was to press into the crowd and attempt to squeeze through unnoticed. But with a white face, this was a risky stategy. Instead, I held back until the exiting throng had dissipated and the TC with his pockets full of little cardboard tickets, retired to his fan cooled office. With the coast clear I quickly stepped out of the gate and into the heat.

My plan, such as it was, was to rent a cycle for the day, and seek out a church where I was certain Iโ€™d find someone who knew my friend, a recently graduated seminarian from the college where my Dad was principal. In such a predominantly Hindu town as Hardwar, I figured there would be no more than a handful of churches and that they would stick out like sore thumbs. Everyone would know where to find them.

Near the station I found a hire shop and rented an Atlas bike for Rs 1. I gave the man my remaining change and promised the remainder upon return. As I swung my leg onto the seat I asked him where the church was. He shrugged and went back to work. I quickly realized that people came to Harwar to vist a handful of monumental Hindu holy spots and left. Churches were not on anybodyโ€™s menu of interesting places.

A passerby called out to me and asked with a twist of his fingers where I was going? โ€œIโ€™m looking for a church to find a friend.โ€

He acted as if he wasnโ€™t listening but then said, โ€œYouโ€™ll find your kind in Jalalabad, at the BHEL compound.โ€

โ€œChristians?โ€ I said, sounding like a young Vasco da Gama.

Again he shrugged. โ€œRussians. They run that place. Go there they will help you.โ€ He moved away into the crowd.

This was great news. White people. Russians, sure, but white folks nonetheless. I headed toward Jalalabad and after cycling for some time asked a man how far it was. โ€œ8 kms,โ€ he said.

My heart quivered. 8 kilometeres?!

The sun was high. My legs felt like they were swelling inside my jeans. Still, the Russians were my only hope.  I pushed on and perhaps half an hour later sighted the huge Bharat Heavy Electrical Limited complex. Tall brick walls with electrified barbed wire skirted a massive industrial estate. Yet the gate was unattended so I wheeled myself in.

A way into India

Iโ€™ve been trying to write about India all my life.  

And failing. 

 Over the weekend I began to organise my old drafts and re-drafts of things Iโ€™ve written since 1980.  It appears that I’m a frustrated memoirist. Certainly, a bit of a narcissist too.  There were several drafts of a piece I wrote about Varanasi which I think I ultimately did (unsuccessfully) submit for publication. I remember struggling with that, trying to understand what I actually wanted to say about the city. What to include, what to leave out. Most versions were a mix of the travel section of your weekend paper, heart-felt expressions of my love for the city and passages which sounded as if they had been written by an AI bot decades before the stuff was even thought of.   All in all, it is awful. 

Of course, Varanasi is the kind of place that even the most sensitive or knowledgeable of writers struggle to write about.  It is one of those subjects that exists in history, in imagination, in the spiritual realm, on the map, in art and in philosophy. It is as big a subject as any in this world. So, I take my failure to capture it as inevitable. 

There were lots of other much shorter pieces too. One, on an obscure south Indian puja. Several recollected conversations with people along the way. A bunch of false starts and dead ends on my two hometowns of Mussoorie and Allahabad.  

What tied them all together was my inability to find the right voice to express what I wanted to say about India. Sure, I was learning a craft and had little command over my thoughts, let alone the words to describe those ideas. But there were other things in the way. Inarticulate passion & emotion which derailed things almost immediately. But more than anything the subject itselfโ€”India–seemed to block my path. 

India is a country and a state of mind that people tend to love or hate. Even if you havenโ€™t been, youโ€™ve probably got an opinion about it.  It is the ultimate in exotic. It is the place where โ€˜everyone everyday is steeped in spirituality,โ€™ and where everyone wears โ€˜colouful, garish, brightly hued clothingโ€™ where the bazars are jammed with โ€˜teeming humanity and mountains of red, yellow and black spices that amaze the casual visitorโ€™. Where the โ€˜extremes of human experienceโ€™ reveal themselves against a background of โ€˜fabled monuments and ancient temples built by long dead dynastiesโ€™.   

Heat and dust. 

Itโ€™s creative writing 101 crossed with National Geographic.    

India โ€˜overwhelms the sensesโ€™, โ€˜drowns one in โ€˜sensory overloadโ€™. India is romantic. An enigma. A land of gurus and maharajas and the worldโ€™s best cricket players.  It is pastiche and projection.  

It is cliche. 

Speaking of National Geographic, that fine publicationโ€™s contribution to this way of looking at the world is immense.  As a budding photographer my favorite subject was India (and within India it was Varanasi). For years the National Geographic approach to visualising India, epitomized by Steve McCurry, was what I emulated. I wanted to capture the best close-up portraits of Indian faces.  I wanted to capture the Himalayas, grand and snowcapped and the temples silhouetted at dusk. I did get lucky from time to time but never came within a mile of McCurry or Raghubir Singh who seemed to have such a knack for uncovering those shots. 

Raghubir Singh himself grew so fed up with this approach that he devoted an entire book to looking at his country with a new eye. Itโ€™s called A Way Into India. I highly recommend you go to the library or your bookstore and check it out.  In essence he used the iconic Indian car, the Hindustan Ambassador, as a lens to see his country with fresh eyes.  And in the process, all those noble portraits, disappeared. What he revealed were glimpses of things every other photographer dismissed as irrelevant or ugly. Details or scenes that are often hard to decipher. It gave his photography new life and has cemented his place in the pantheon of great modern photographers. 

All this is to say Iโ€™m still struggling with how to write about and visualise India. It bugs he hell out of me and frustrates me. I should be able to do this, I say to myself. Why canโ€™t I get beyond the โ€˜garish sarisโ€™ and โ€˜wizened old sadhusโ€™?   The closest Iโ€™ve come is by letting Indians I meet along the way, speak to me in their own words.  In this blog youโ€™ll find several such conversations. I try not to embellish them or add my judgements to them.  Just let them speak about their Indian experience.   

But that is still not what Iโ€™m searching for.  I want to tell my story. Iโ€™m searching for a way into India that is true to both my experience and to the subject, Mother India.

A note on the image at the top of this post. An advertisement (could have been from a calendar or a biscuit tin) for the Sassoon commercial house. The Sassoons were Baghdadi Jews who landed in India in 1830 and went on to become a leading pillar of that city’s economic and cultural heritage. The image is a cultural melange of scripts and symbols, recognisable to Indians and foreigners. The scripts mostly transcribe the family name. Sir Jacob Sassoon was the third or fourth generation to run the business. As the image depicts, he expanded operations to Karachi (now Pakistan) and Shanghai. The family, like so many of Bombay’s elite families was involved in the opium, tea, silver racket that financed the rise of the English empire. More on that in the future.

My Desi Heart: Intro

Allahabad, 1965

I was born in India in 1957. ย The youngest of four siblings in an American missionary family from small town North Dakota and Minnesota. We were evangelicals. Conservative in a Protestant theology heavily influenced by the Holiness movement of the 19th century. Small sect Methodism that believed all sinners could be completely โ€˜sanctifiedโ€™ or perfect, in their lifetimes. Among other things of course.ย 

I was born in the southern Tamil temple city of Madurai but we lived 850 kilometers northwest in a Kanarese speaking area of what is now the Indian state of Karnataka. Dadโ€™s employer, the Oriental Missionary Society or OMS, had established a bible training college in the town of Gadag, famous for producing one of classical Indian musicโ€™s noblest performers, Pandit Bhimsen Joshi, and a lively printing industry. 

Dad taught theology and related subjects to young Christian men and women from the surrounding areas. He regularly preached at outdoor revival meetings with his colleagues and students. Mom helped out wherever she was needed, sometimes as the bookkeeper for the college, sometimes she would join the pastorsโ€™ wives in their rural evangelizing campaigns but mostly she raised us kids.  

They had landed in Bombay after a long voyage across several oceans from New York in February 1952. They were appointed to join another American family, The Davises, who had two boys round about the same age as my two brothers, and a jolly, tubby spinster from Baltimore, Mary Ella Taylor. 

Mike my oldest brother was 5. Gregg, next up was 3. My sister Rebecca would arrive 3 years later, in 1955 and I brought up the rear in โ€˜57. There is a good case to be made that another sister was stillborn before I came along. 

We lived on the campus of the Karnataka Bible Seminary, whose red brick buildings dated back several decades. It was well shaded at least in the front part and served as a safe, walled but sprawling little world for me to explore as a kid.  

We were generally happy and normal. Among our subcultured circle of missionaries anyway. In fact, compared with the Davises,  mom and dad were liberal youngsters, which did cause ongoing friction between them over the years.  As is the wont of every child what they see in their homes they project onto the entire Universe.  There was nothing different about us. We all believed broadly the same things about the Bible and God and Jesus. We shared a barebone existence with few physical comforts. It was simple, filled with good food, devotions, trips to exotic places like the temples of Hampi, Shravanabelagola and the beaches of Karwar. Of course, โ€œweโ€ in these instances refers to other OMS missionaries or white folk in India more broadly.  

It was impossible not to notice that most everyone else around us and among us did not believe these things. But then, that was the whole point of our landing up in rural southern India. To try to get as many of them as possible to come over to our team.  A spiritual kabaddi match. 

Only recently have I begun to distance myself from the lived experience of my childhood. To look at it not from within but from a distance of 60 year; and from the outside. How did this rural, poor family from Minnesota end up in the villages of central India, speaking strange tongues and eating strange food? Why?  What was going on in India at the time? And how did being surrounded by religion and spirituality, in the home or everywhere you went in India, and speaking Kanarese simultaneously as fluidly as English and having Indian friends to whom I was closer than to my brothers who were away in boarding school?

What does /did this niche childhood-โ€“Minnesota, Holiness Methodists, missionaries, newly Independent India, bilingual communication–influence who I am today?   

This is about that.  

India has been an indivisible aspect of my life since 10 July 1957. At times some have found it irritating and maddening.  Others have seen it as fascinating and exotic. Most just shrug, especially now in this tiny world we live in, in the 2020s.   

My connection to India is something Iโ€™ve always loved but havenโ€™t known how to incorporate into my story. Or stories. It depended on the audience of course, as all stories do. My wives have felt threatened by India which is so easy to love in comparison with a real complex woman. So, there is shame and protection mixed in with my love of India. Iโ€™m sure many, including myself, thought I would outgrow my romantic childhood when I became an adult and that its influence would settle into a manageable and quaint curry now and then and perhaps one grand tour with the family when the kids are old enough to enjoy an adventure.  

But it hasnโ€™t happened that way. The older I got the more attached and fascinated by and in love with the place I become.  I chose to study Hindi rather than Latin or French in high school. At the University of Minnesota, I jumped from majoring in Anthropology and Journalism and English before settling on South Asian Studies and History. I studied Urdu as well as Hindi. I spent a year after university studying in Lahore Pakistan. I was thinking of doing a PhD on one of the most important figures in modern South Asian Islam, Maulana Maududi. But then I got a job with the UN in Islamabad and began a career that took me around the world. India faded into the background for those years but never died.  

I began blogs about South Asian music and wrote a novel set in Pakistan. I read books on the caste system, Tamil anti-Brahmanism, Aurangzeb and the film industry, travelled and photographed across India whenever I could, did an ongoing deep dive into south Asian music and film and wrote a weekly column on the subject for an Indian online paper. I was asked to write a history of the Pakistani movie industry and now Iโ€™m thinking of leading tours to the sub-continent.   

India is not fading away like it was supposed to.  

Many of my kind (Missionary Kids from India and Pakistan) break into song when asked by Indians to explain ourselves.   

Mera juta hai Japani 

Yeh Patloon Englstani 

Sar pe lal topi Russi 

Phir bhi dil hai hindustani 

(I wear Japanese shoes and English trousers, The red hat on my head is Russian but still my heart is Indian)  

Itโ€™s a hackneyed trope but does capture the essence. 

My first blog I named, the Washermanโ€™s Dog which is the English version of another famous Indian aphorism: na ghar ka na ghat ka, dhobi ka kuta (neither of the ghat nor the home, the washermanโ€™s dog) 

Both sets of lyrics resonate with me. I do feel homeless in a way, neither from here nor there. But also completely blended in with India.  

Hence, it seems appropriate to name this column, My Desi Heart. A place where Iโ€™ll explore the story of my love-affair with the sub-continent. 

The Silent One

After a breakfast of cold TBJ (toast butter jam) at one of the several โ€˜hippie cafesโ€™ that line the narrow tarmac road running along Puriโ€™s beachfront, I walked down to the station to buy a newspaper.ย  When I arrived, I was informed that as today is the day after Republic Day there are no papers.ย 

On my way back to the cafรฉ I stopped to observe a sadhu who was holding court outside a colourfully decorated, low-ceilinged temple not far from the entrance to the station.ย 

He was toking up when I arrived. The chilam was offered to me but I declined. A group of rickshaw walas and assorted young men squatted in a semi circle near him. Each drew deep on the pipe as it made the rounds.ย 

I asked them if they werenโ€™t afraid that the police would round them up. 

This has been purchased under a government license. No problem. 

A man with rotting teeth told me that smoking hash was essential to the peopleโ€™s daily existence.ย  Some people eatย  paan, others smoke ganja, some like bhang, others charas. Its all for digestion of the food.ย  It is necessary.ย 

I reply that I get paranoid when I smoke it.ย ย 

They all laugh. Their tired red eyes remain motionless while their faces move in different ways.   Like all addicts, they agree that moderation is the attitude to be employed. But they exclude themselves from their own advice with a shrug of the shoulders. 

I am told the sadhu has not spoken for 12 years.ย ย ย 

He has four more to go before his vow is complete. 

I wonder if he will still remember how to form words after 16 years of silence. 

He communicates through gestures and a penetrating gaze but cracks an engaging smile once in a while. His sidekick, also a sanyasi, seems to have sworn the opposite vow: to talk as much as he can in as short a space as possible.ย 

He interprets the silent oneโ€™s flailing arms and pointing fingers.  He details their recent past and spells out their future intentions. (They are headed to Nepal, next). The sidekick tells of fabulous bright silver coins and good charas in Kashmir.  

We sleep wherever we find a spot. A sanyasi has no home.  

Do you travel by foot, I ask. 

He laughs.ย  No. No. No. We are sanyasis. We go by train.ย  Whoever has heard of a sadhu paying for his travel?ย 

As I leave, the silent one pinches some ashes from his smoldering fire and signals that I should smear some on my forehead, which I do.  

Sidekick then rattles, Now swallow the rest. 

I hesitate but do he says.  I walk away with a gritty taste in my mouth. 

This piece was written in January 1989 while on a holiday in eastern India. The image is called ‘Mussoorie baba’ It is NOT a portrait of the Silent One of Puri, but of a wanderer I met in the hill station , Mussoorie, where I did my pre-university education in a storied boarding school. Such men could be classified as sadhus or sanyasis but are more endearingly referred to as baba. The former terms have a spiritual connotation; that one’s wandering is part of one’s spiritual practice. Baba on the other hand is a more generic term for men who amble around the countryside with no precise motive or destination. It is also sometimes used to refer to young boys. I was referred to as Nate baba, while growing up, by many older Indians.

The photo was one of the first of mine to be published by a company in the Twin Cities that published brochures for churches!